Can we use candles in the marquee and house?

Yes, in the marquee, but we will have to approve the candle holders. We are obviously concerned about fire and safety. There will be fire extinguishers in the marquee, but we ask everyone to be responsible. Candles are not allowed in the house unless we are made aware of them and someone is responsible for them and it has been previously discussed.  Please keep us informed if you have any doubts.  Also, if you have something elaborate in mind, consider using LED candles.